Desire Differences Planner
The Desire Differences Planner supports clients to explore and navigate differences in sexual desire with curiosity and compassion. It reframes mismatched desire not as a problem to fix, but as an opportunity to build deeper understanding, empathy, and connection.
Designed as a tool to support client to reflect on their experience in-between sessions, this tool guides partners to:
- Map their natural rhythms and patterns of desire
- Identify emotional, physical, and contextual factors that influence arousal and openness
- Reflect on how to stay connected when desire levels differ
- Explore non-sexual forms of closeness that nurture intimacy and trust
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Develop shared rituals that create safety, playfulness, and ongoing connection
